We repeat what we don't repair when we repeat the same dysfunctional relationship patterns.

We repeat what we don't repair because of the phenomenon ''what fires together, 

wires together''.   This refers to the way neurons in your brain create stronger, more efficient, and more familiar pathways the more you think about or do something.   We see this when we practice learning a new skill, but we don't necessarily connect this to how we choose relationships.  The good news is we can break old patterns by rewiring our brains to form new neural connections so that new behaviors become the norm.

Let's make repair so that we stop repeating behaviors that don't serve us!